How to Help Your Child to Feel Seen, Heard, and Loved – Did you start your parenting journey being told that kids need certain things in order to be happy (and for you to be a good parent?)
1. Being SEEN for exactly who they are
2. Being HEARD and respected for what they have to share
3. Being LOVED unconditionally, no matter what
Yeah I know that might have hit some of you hard, but it’s true.
Your kid doesn’t make the sports team and you feel angry? It’s likely you were punished for not meeting expectations when you were younger too.
Your kid is struggling with their schoolwork and you feel agitated? Maybe you were only praised for getting A grades at school and this just became your baseline.
More than anything right now, our kids need to feel seen, heard and loved just for being them. And so do you.
Why? Because kids arrive in our arms already equipped with what they need to live happy, joyful and present lives. But through our (often unintentional) conditioning, we slowly but surely add layers and layers onto them that do not serve them – high expectations, demands, punishment, shame, comparison, judgement, withdrawal of love and affection, lack of emotional freedom…
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