My 80/20 Approach to Human Design Parenting

Human Design Parenting

My 80/20 Approach to Human Design Parenting – You’ve probably heard about the 80/20 rule before; how 20% of your results come from 80% of the work, or something similar.

Well, with the parents I guide to embed Human Design into their parenting and family life, I am very upfront from the beginning about where the majority of the ‘work’ is usually done. And it’s not the kids.


Because kids arrive earth side absolutely living by their design. They haven’t forgotten or been shown how to live any other way at that point. And then throughout their childhood they learn from parents, friends, school, other influences that they should be doing things in a different, ‘better’ way. We become conditioned to be the same as everyone else, one way or another.

If we could just let them be, they would be just fine. But of course we are all humans living in an imperfect physical world so this is not the case.

So, instead we need to turn our attention to you, the parent. But don’t take this as blame in any way. We are all doing our best with what we have at the time – it’s not about anything going wrong. But, as the phrase goes “when we know better, we can do better” and that’s exactly where the parents I work with are usually at when we commence our journey together.

They know they could be having better relationships with their kids, and themselves.

They know they could be trusting themselves and their kids more.

They know they want to have deeper connections with those they love, especially their beloved children.

But they don’t know how. And they are trying to uncover the real them underneath all the years and layers of conditioning. The good news is we are all in the same boat more or less – none of us are immune to conditioning of some kind.

So, you see the majority of the focus is on you, the parent, so we can uncover who you were always meant to be so you can become the parent you so badly want to be. That’s the 80%.

And it’s a daily practice! Believe me, I’m still failing learning each and every day.

If you’re ready to fully lean into parenting your child with their human design, then I am taking bookings into March for my family chart readings as well as 1:1 private coaching, where we deep dive on your human design as well as set goals to help you all live a courageous, connected and confident family life. Bookings for chart readings can be made here, or a free 30 minute consult can be booked here. Or, simply hit reply and let me know how I can help or answer any questions.

Ready to add Human Design to your parenting toolkit?

Start with a Printable Human Design wall chart (for you or your child) and start to learn more about this incredible tool for your life, and parenting journey. See the full range of custom digital HD wall charts, ebooks and bundles here.

Keen to dive deeper?


I work 1:1 with parents to understand their own Human Design as well as their child’s. I offer individual, parent/child and full family sessions. Learn more here.


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I'm Claire, it's SO lovely to have you here!

I help conscious parents understand and integrate their family's unique Human Design into everyday life.

Parenting by design has helped me to see my beautiful kiddos on an entirely new level. I can't wait to help you start to parent with soul too!

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